Today, I mourn the loss of a dear friend named Clay. I met Clay over three years ago in Los Angeles, California. He was such a beautiful soul. He was full of effervescence, and he gave life and positive energy to everybody around him. Clay was “groomed for greatness,” as his father puts it. He was ready to change the world and inspired others to do the same.

It’s crazy how the events of life play out. Clay just graduated from Texas Christian University last year. This year, he was studying dance at the Ailey School. In my short time of knowing him, I’d accumulated a number of fond memories of Clay. I was in such a state of shock when I heard of his passing. I didn’t know what to think.

This was a wake-up call for me – in more than one way. If you don’t feel like reading, just skip to the end.

First, I was reminded of the need to live each day as if it is my last, simply because I’ll never know when my last day will be. Clay lived life to the fullest. He was in the midst of fulfilling his dreams.

For those who skipped…
1. Live each day to the fullest. Do all that you can and give all that you can to every thing and every one. Live vehemently. You never know which moment will be your last. Carpe the hell out of each diem.

2. Spread positivity. You never know how your actions will affect people. Spread joy. Have a liberating influence on others. Inspire people to be better people.

3. Tell people how you feel while you can. Let your loved ones know NOW that you love them. You won’t regret it. If they already know, tell them again. I don’t think you can ever say it enough.

I recognize that this wasn’t my most eloquent post. I’m still in disbelief, waiting for someone to call me to tell me that Clay is actually still alive. Anyway, in 2014, I’d like you all to join me in living each day to the fullest, spreading positivity and inspiration, and telling people how we feel.

Rest in peace, Clay York. Thank you for being so full of life and love. I am very fortunate to have known you, and I wish you knew how much I loved and appreciated you. I hope to be more like you – starting today.